YOU HURT HER MORE THAN YOU THINK

It was a perfect morning for everyone, no one had the premonition of what would likely be. Even a soothsayer wouldn’t have been believed if he had said that before hand. Things were moving just the way it should before then. They used to be love birds.

J Don as he is fondly called by his admirers has this innocent look, doesn’t seem like one who could hurt a fly, he used to be the dream of every girl in the neighbourhood, because he wasn’t known for being a flirt, neither is he

DON'T THINK YOU CAN CHANGE HIM THEREAFTER

I met my husband just over 20 years ago, said Susan, trying to put me in the picture of how she would come to loose her self respect and dignity, because she couldn’t say no to an emotional abuser like her husband. He had one or two girlfriend at the same time when we were courting but I fell pregnant, so we got married, she explained.

Years after we discover we weren’t just compatible, he didn’t stop womanizing and treated the house as a transit camp so we decided to get a divorce or better put, he wanted his freedom. In spite of the divorce, we

WHAT IF YOU ARE BEING USED

It is one thing that lives with us; you’d just realize the person you thought you had something good to do with is only using you to satisfy his/her selfish ends. Often, we hear people being used and dumped. He/she becomes nice and so friendly because of what they can possibly gain from you. Once they get it, your existence becomes a story. I assume nobody would want to wish this to even his farthest acquaintance, it is something

NEGATIVE INFLUENCE CAN DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE

“Let me tell you Abby, if I were in your shoes, I will not take the kind of bullshit James hands over to you! How can you just sit there and allow him walk all over your rights in your own home and still do the submissive wife act? If I must remind you, the Beijing conference has empowered women to have equal rights with men. So I don’t see reason why you should just sit there crying over this situation while your husband continues to step on your toes by

WHAT IF YOU'VE JUST BEEN DUMPED?

She tried all she could to see that the relationship moved to the next level but his randy adventure ended her dream. Chike got another woman pregnant and as their tradition demands, must marry her.
More to some than to others, but chances are that at some stage of our illustrious dating career, we’ve been dumped, left behind, discarded like